When it is time for a young man to get married, his family will aid in the look out for possible candidates. Once one has been decided upon, the "merisik" process begins, whose purpose is solely to investigate his potential bride. The family's role is to pay a friendly visit to the family of their "target", and a hint will be given to her parents regarding the purpose of the visit, and their reaction will be assessed.
The girl's parents may also give an answer on behalf of their daughter. The "merisik" process does not constitute a formal proposal, and following the visit both sides can begin to think more seriously about the possibility or otherwise of the union. If it is known or assumed that no progress will take place, the young man's parents or representatives will search for another possible candidate.
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